Life vs. Death

Crimson Knightmare · Post by **Crimson Knightmare** » Sun Nov 13, 2005 6:37 pm

Hey buddy dont worry about it okay.Were all expressing our views on it and may have different ones.. So tis okay man ^_^

Tinuvhiell · Post by **Tinuvhiell** » Sun Nov 13, 2005 8:57 pm

"Kids" Ugh. That movie was scary. I saw it when I was 16 or 17, and I knew people that were like that.

Post by **Jehannum** » Sun Nov 13, 2005 9:01 pm

Yes! You have it absolutely correct, s4rx7! Don't you see? The girl is the one suffering now, not the boy! The boy is done and over with. No more pain. But for the rest of her life, the girl must face that she aided the death of someone.

Thats crazy, man. The girl isnt responsible for the mental state of that kid. Do you think that she should get involved emotionally or in a romantic way with an unstable and mentally ill person just to make sure that they dont go and do something crazy?

The girl had the sense not to get involved. Its not her fault at all.

The drugs..the pills...Like Ohio41 said, the "socially acceptable diseases." It is out of hand. Your fate is your own to make or break.

Logan Wallace · Post by **Logan Wallace** » Mon Nov 14, 2005 10:46 am

Evelond Formos wrote:The girl is the one suffering now, not the boy! The boy is done and over with. No more pain. But for the rest of her life, the girl must face that she aided the death of someone.

Unfortunately this statement, as wrong as most people think it, is quite correct in this case. Please don't take me wrong, she is ABSOLUTELY not responsible in ANY way for his death, but if Evelond was staying this based on what he thought she was feeling, it is exactly correct. She feels very responsible and guilty. But she has many family and friends who she has to talk with and hopefully, over time, she too will realize it's NOT something she had control over. Even the boy's family has tried to reach out to her. It is a very heavy load for a young girl to carry, I couldn't imagine it myself.

Sometimes I think people forget that even though we (the ones standing on the sidelines) see the right and wrong of a situation, the feelings of the effective ones are distorted, and to them at the time their feelings are validated.

A good base of family and friends to talk with is a powerful aid.

Kell · Post by **Kell** » Mon Nov 14, 2005 12:28 pm

Evelond Formos wrote:*sigh* CK, no apology needed. I'm still upset with myself that I said 'let them kill themselves'. Kell, CK, thank you, for responding to my posts. But I must say I will try to stay away from this topic, for it depresses me. Though I understand death needs to happen sooner or later, I don't like to discuss it. It's too heartbreaking.

Temporarily signing out,

It's not a pretty subject.. but it's all around.. And if it isn't discussed at all, it's just shoved away like it wouldn't be a problem. And it is a problem.

I understand your feelings though. *hug*